10 reasons to consider couple’s therapy while dating

10 reasons to consider couple’s therapy while dating.

Dating has changed there’s no two ways about it. So has the world too. Add the two together and it can be a minefield.

So here’s 10 reasons why counselling during the dating stages can help you and your prospective partner.

What’s your thoughts?

Spank & Wax: Friday 8 July

@eroticnoire presents Spank & Wax
A workshop for anyone curious or a lover of spanking and wax play.

Friday 8 July

Come learn and explore the pleasures of spanking and wax play. You’ll have a demonstration, learn the techniques, types of implements and more

Spank and Wax workshop is dedicated to people of African and Caribbean heritage and POCs.

Structure of the evening:
Demonstration and teaching
Guided practice session
Q&A
Free time to practice and network

This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, a date or just a sole exploration.

@anomaliiparties will be your hosts and teachers and will be held at @anatomiestudiolondon

This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Places are limited. Link in the bio or search ‘Eroticnoire’ on Eventbrite

Video by @transfer.zekka

#blackrelationships
#blackerotica #blacksexuality #blacklondon #blackowned

Shibari Noire: erotic rope bondage.

This is your invitation to come and explore erotic rope bondage at Shibari Noire on Wednesday 22 June.

The UKs only and first erotic rope bondage workshop dedicated to black people and POCs.

Come and explore, dive in, enjoy and learn about erotic rope bondage.

@mouseinrope will be your guide as she gives you:
– a tutorial on techniques, styles and forms of rope ties and play
– guided time practice
– a Q&A where she’ll talk about her journey, experience and life as person or colour in the world of kink
– opportunity to play or network with guests

This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, bring a date or just a solo exploration.

This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Places are limited. Book now to avoid disappointment.

Tickets available on Eventbrite
Search ‘Eroticnoire’ or ‘shibari Noire’

#blackrelationships #blacklondon #blacklove #blackkink #blackkinkster #blackbdsm #blacktwitter

Spank & Wax workshop

Eroticnoire presents Spank & Wax.

Come and learn and explore the pleasures of spanking and wax play. You’ll have a demonstration, learn the techniques, types of implements and more
Spank and Wax workshop is dedicated to people of African and Caribbean heritage and POCs. It guests a chance to explore, indulge and get hands on guidance and experience with spanking and wax play.

Structure of the evening:
Demonstration and teaching
Guided practice session
Q&A
Free time to practice and network
This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, a date or just a sole exploration.

Anomalii Parties will be your hosts and teachers.

This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Places are limited.

Book tickets at Eventbrite

Causalities in the battle of genders

Do you feel there is a gender war going on, especially in the black community?

If you’re like me you’ve noticed to plethora of podcasts, experts, social commentors. They’re offering their views and advise on relationships, the opposite sex and the problems with them. I’ll always endorse debate and discussion.

However (and at the risk of only adding to the buzz) I feel that there is a lot of finger pointing. “the problem with women is…” “Men are just…”. My gran once told me when you point at someone be mindful three fingers point back at you. Basically, look at, be accountable for, heal from, explore your rational.

In a time when it’s so blatant that the world doesn’t care for us, a world that continues to demonstrate its injustice towards us, a world were we continue to have to fight to protect ourselves that we ought to be also fighting each other? It’s all well and good pointing fingers but let’s talk about the solution. Not who’s right or wrong. Not turning tables. If we look at a lot for the rhetoric and narrative it would sound like we don’t wish to be with eachother. Yet, most of us will profess to only loving and wanting #blacklove.

There is no one route to creating and connecting as a ppl when it comes to black love but we sure can stop and reflect and work towards solutions cause in this battle of the sexes nobody wins.

Ok. Rant over. 🙏🏾🙌🏾🖤✊🏾
What’s your thoughts?

#IamDeeDeeWalker – flashback 127

His dick stroke was God.
When he was on top of me.
His back would recoil. Arch backwards. Then slowly his pelvis would tilt
downwards into me. His abs would flex, offering more leverage to his tilt and his length, his broad girth would part my walls. He would clench his ass as if he was squeezing the last inches of his deep strokes. Then when he reached the root of my yoni he’d push his entire body up the length of mine. Pause. Then slowly recoil backwards. All this in one smooth, unhurried motion. Repeatedly. With intent.
Until I crumbled like Jenga.


Personal invitation to Eroticnoire’s Shibari workshop

You’ve been invited to learn and explore Shibari (erotic rope bondage) on Wednesday 27 April.Your host and tutor for the night will be Mousey is sending you a personal invite so come along.

This is London’s first shibari workshop dedicated for people of African/Caribbean heritage.

This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, a date or just a sole exploration.This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Spaces are limited so book early to avoid disappointment: Tickets available on eventbrite

Mouseinrope

Eroticnoire Shirabi Taster Session – FAQ

Eroticnoire presents the Shibari Taster Session. Come and learn about rope play, restraints, techniques, styles and morevisit Eventbrite for more details

Here’s a FAQ for attendees

Q: I’m single can I attend alone?

A: Yes, this event is for singles as well as couples and groups You can practice on yourself or be paired with another attendee

Q: Will I need to be nude/undressed?

A: No. Attendees will be clothed. We do advise fitted comfortable clothing eg leggings, fitted tops etc

Q: Will rope be provided?

A: Yes, there will be rope available. You can also purchase rope at the venue

Q: Will there be men and women?

A: Yes. We welcome everyone to attend and learn

Q: Do you welcome groups?

A: Yes, groups are welcome. Although we do not offer group tickets

Q: Can I wear lingerie or be nude?

A: Lingerie is ok and we welcome all individuals to be free and comfortable. However, we ask that you consider other guests.

Q: Will there be one-to-one coaching?

A: Due to the nature of the event coach will provide some one-to-one guidance but not a prolonged or exclusive one-to-one coaching

Q: Can I take photos or video?

A: Yes, you’re welcome to take photos and videos of yourself, partner or friends. We do ask you respect the privacy of other guests

Q: Is this event exclusively for people of African and Caribbean heritage

A: Yes. This event is strictly for those of African and Caribbean heritage to explore this area of BDSM and kink and breakdown the under representation of this group of people.

Q: Do I have to get involved or can i just watch and learn?

A: You’re welcome to attend and watch. however, it is a practical workshop. You can practice on yourself.

Q: is it only women who can be tied up?

A: No. men can be tied up too. Shibari is for all genders to explore and enjoy.

Eroticnoire Shirabi Taster Session – April 27 2022

The Eroticnoire Shibari Taster Session gives you a chance to explore, indulge and get hands on guidance and experience with Shibari (also known as rope play or rope art).

Shibari expert and advocate Mousey aka @mouseinrope will be your host and teacher.

Structure of the evening:

  • Demonstration and teaching
  • Guided practice session
  • Q&A
  • Free time to practice and network

This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, a date or just a sole exploration.

This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Places are limited

Here’s a link to a FAQ

Eroticnoire book club – Brown Sugar

Brown Sugar brings together some of the most acclaimed voices in today’s black literary world — Sapphire, Natasha Tarpley, Reginald Harris, and Pamela Sneed, among them. These titillating stories cover the full spectrum of black experience and identity as they reveal sexuality and sensuality in all their varied and exotic forms. From the subtle to the graphic, Brown Sugar embraces the passion of black love and lust, and will appeal to both men and women. Featuring both well-established authors and promising new writers, this one-of-a-kind collection represents the past, present, and future of black literature at its pleasurable and outrageous best.

It is a must-have for every lover, as well as every lover of first-rate fiction.