Celebrate erotic Black History Month

Typically black history month celebrates our ancestors, inventors, leaders and of course slavery. One thing I found that isn’t celebrated or reflected on is our sexual history or lived experience. That’s why I’m putting on 3 events to explore and celebrate black erotica.

Shibari Noire. Spank & Wax and Drinks & Kinks.

Shibari Noire is the UKs first and only erotic rope workshop dedicated to people of African and Caribbean heritage.

Spank & Wax offers a place for black people to learn, explore and indulge in the pleasures of spanking.

Drinks & Kinks is an mixer and social event for black kinksters to meet, network and connect with like minded people of African and Caribbean heritage.

So this October explore and celebrate a different aspect of black history

See flyers below for details. Tickets via Eventbrite

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The E Lounge is back…

E Lounge is evening where black erotic performers, blogs, creatives and practitioners take to the stage in a live chat show style event.


E Lounge is chat show style event where black erotica, love and relationships are celebrated, explored and showcased.

Special guests include:

Sex Educator Sylvi A

Fitness Dominatrix Sadistic Coach

Erotic poet Koko Sweets

Black Polyamory advocate Jax from BlackFluent Polyamory Hub

Sexpert and blogger SherrylsWorld

Erotic editor and model Jessica Yupele

Hosted by: Esther from PillowTalkz and Yve Nimi aka Yveolution

They’ll be poetry, Q&A, interactive discussion games and more. So come and explore, discuss and celebrate black sexuality and erotica.

Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/e-lounge-tickets-377356010987

Shibari Noire trailer

Excited to share the Shibari Noire rope class that @iampillowtalkz had the pleasure of attending, that was organised by @eroticnoire.co.uk

catch the full Ep on Pillowtalkz Tv on YouTube Link in the bio

thank you to @eroticnoire.co.uk & @mouseinrope

Video credit:
@jaxluther

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Next Shibari Noire is Wed 13 July. Ticket link: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/eroticnoire-shibari-taster-session-tickets-331434358087?aff=eand

Spank & Wax workshop FAQ

On Friday 8th July Eroticnoire presents Spank & Wax. It’s London’s first and only BDSM workshop dedicated to black people and POC.

Tickets are available on Eventbrite

Here is an FAQ for those interested in the event.

I’m single can I attend alone?

Absolutely. The event is for singles and couples. They’ll be other singles attending so you can be paired up with them if you wish.

What should I wear?

We recommend comfortable clothing. You can dress as formal or sensual as you wish.

Is this a play/adult party?

No. This is workshop whereby attendees learn how to practice spanking. Any sexual acts are prohibited.

Will I be expected to spank or be spanked?

This is totally up to you. Consent is paramount for us so it’s your choice.

Do I have to pair up if attending alone?

No. You can form small groups and practice together if everyone has consented. Or you can simply watch.

Will paddles be provided?

Yes. A limited number of paddles will be provided. You’re more than welcome to bring your own implements. You can also purchase them from RedRoomPleasures.com

Is the event exclusively for blk and POCs?

Yes. This event is specifically for those of African and Caribbean heritage to explore this area of BDSM and kink.

I’m in a mixed couple relationship, can my partner attend?

Yes, as long as they are attending with a black person or POC.

Will there be 1-2-1 coaching

Due to the nature of the event there will be some one-to-one guidance but not exclusive or prolonged coaching.

Is this event for couples only?

No, not at all. Singles are actively welcomed.

Is the event confidential?

We ask all attendees to respect each other’s privacy and that discretion is upheld.

Can I volunteer to be part of the demonstration?

Absolutely. Speak with our hosts. You can also volunteer to be spanked by another attendee as long as they consent.

Can I take photos or video?

You can only take images of yourself or the person(s) you’ve attended with. We ask you respect the privacy of other guests. Our hosts will also be monitoring the session.

Will I be allowed to attend in lingerie or kink wear?

Yes. Kink and lingerie are welcomed. However, we ask you consider other guests.

Can I watch or do I have to take part?

You’re welcome to attend and watch. However, it is a practical workshop so bare this in mind.

If you’ve got any other questions leave a comment below. Don’t forget to join the mailing list:

10 reasons to consider couple’s therapy while dating

10 reasons to consider couple’s therapy while dating.

Dating has changed there’s no two ways about it. So has the world too. Add the two together and it can be a minefield.

So here’s 10 reasons why counselling during the dating stages can help you and your prospective partner.

What’s your thoughts?

Spank & Wax: Friday 8 July

@eroticnoire presents Spank & Wax
A workshop for anyone curious or a lover of spanking and wax play.

Friday 8 July

Come learn and explore the pleasures of spanking and wax play. You’ll have a demonstration, learn the techniques, types of implements and more

Spank and Wax workshop is dedicated to people of African and Caribbean heritage and POCs.

Structure of the evening:
Demonstration and teaching
Guided practice session
Q&A
Free time to practice and network

This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, a date or just a sole exploration.

@anomaliiparties will be your hosts and teachers and will be held at @anatomiestudiolondon

This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Places are limited. Link in the bio or search ‘Eroticnoire’ on Eventbrite

Video by @transfer.zekka

#blackrelationships
#blackerotica #blacksexuality #blacklondon #blackowned

Shibari Noire: erotic rope bondage.

This is your invitation to come and explore erotic rope bondage at Shibari Noire on Wednesday 22 June.

The UKs only and first erotic rope bondage workshop dedicated to black people and POCs.

Come and explore, dive in, enjoy and learn about erotic rope bondage.

@mouseinrope will be your guide as she gives you:
– a tutorial on techniques, styles and forms of rope ties and play
– guided time practice
– a Q&A where she’ll talk about her journey, experience and life as person or colour in the world of kink
– opportunity to play or network with guests

This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, bring a date or just a solo exploration.

This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Places are limited. Book now to avoid disappointment.

Tickets available on Eventbrite
Search ‘Eroticnoire’ or ‘shibari Noire’

#blackrelationships #blacklondon #blacklove #blackkink #blackkinkster #blackbdsm #blacktwitter

Spank & Wax workshop

Eroticnoire presents Spank & Wax.

Come and learn and explore the pleasures of spanking and wax play. You’ll have a demonstration, learn the techniques, types of implements and more
Spank and Wax workshop is dedicated to people of African and Caribbean heritage and POCs. It guests a chance to explore, indulge and get hands on guidance and experience with spanking and wax play.

Structure of the evening:
Demonstration and teaching
Guided practice session
Q&A
Free time to practice and network
This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, a date or just a sole exploration.

Anomalii Parties will be your hosts and teachers.

This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Places are limited.

Book tickets at Eventbrite

Causalities in the battle of genders

Do you feel there is a gender war going on, especially in the black community?

If you’re like me you’ve noticed to plethora of podcasts, experts, social commentors. They’re offering their views and advise on relationships, the opposite sex and the problems with them. I’ll always endorse debate and discussion.

However (and at the risk of only adding to the buzz) I feel that there is a lot of finger pointing. “the problem with women is…” “Men are just…”. My gran once told me when you point at someone be mindful three fingers point back at you. Basically, look at, be accountable for, heal from, explore your rational.

In a time when it’s so blatant that the world doesn’t care for us, a world that continues to demonstrate its injustice towards us, a world were we continue to have to fight to protect ourselves that we ought to be also fighting each other? It’s all well and good pointing fingers but let’s talk about the solution. Not who’s right or wrong. Not turning tables. If we look at a lot for the rhetoric and narrative it would sound like we don’t wish to be with eachother. Yet, most of us will profess to only loving and wanting #blacklove.

There is no one route to creating and connecting as a ppl when it comes to black love but we sure can stop and reflect and work towards solutions cause in this battle of the sexes nobody wins.

Ok. Rant over. 🙏🏾🙌🏾🖤✊🏾
What’s your thoughts?

#IamDeeDeeWalker – flashback 127

His dick stroke was God.
When he was on top of me.
His back would recoil. Arch backwards. Then slowly his pelvis would tilt
downwards into me. His abs would flex, offering more leverage to his tilt and his length, his broad girth would part my walls. He would clench his ass as if he was squeezing the last inches of his deep strokes. Then when he reached the root of my yoni he’d push his entire body up the length of mine. Pause. Then slowly recoil backwards. All this in one smooth, unhurried motion. Repeatedly. With intent.
Until I crumbled like Jenga.