Q&A: Difficulty reaching orgasm

Question:
Hi Eroticnoire: I love sex but was wondering why is it so hard for me to orgasm? I can come when I masturbate or when I’m on top but that’s it. Can you help?

Response:
70% of wmn can only cum/cum better via clitoral orgams/stimulation with the remaining 30% split between gspot and penetration. Maybe you’re a gspot woman.

When a woman is on top she can control the movement, pace, depth and angle of the man’s penis. As most men when erect will curve upwards towards his belly it’ll be hitting the front wall of her vagina (where the gspot is) when he’s laying on his back – thus making it more likely for you to reach orgasm. Obviously, it’ll be boring if that’s the only position you could ever have sex in that’ll make you orgasm so here’s two more:

Position 1: Lay on your back and put a couple pillows under your bum so your hips are raised OR lay on the edge of the bed/sofa with your legs hanging off the end. The guy should be kneeling on the floor (if you’re on the edge of the sofa/bed) as he slides inside u he’s penis will be curved upwards and be hitting your gspot. If you’re on the bed and have pillows under your bum it’s more or less the same thing.

Position 2: Lay on your stomach and have him kneel next to and slide his thumb inside u from behind (like a thumb backshot) he should press his thumb downwards against your front wall. His fingers should be cupped under you so they are resting on your stomach and between you and the bed. He should slowly press against your gspot and let you rock your hips to control the motion.

Also, it maybe worth exploring oral sex more and incorporating toys not just into your sole indulgences but into your sex too.

I hope that helps.

Mr E

Ask Mr E – the Q&A session

Over the last few months I’ve been ask by followers of my blog and via my BB (pin:280f671C) for advice, tips and suggestions relating to their sex lives.

Some of the questions have ranged from what sex toy to recommend, to best position for orgasm and of course how to make a woman squirt. So, I’ve finally decided to open up a ‘surgery’ to offer whatever knowledge and insight I can impart.

How it’ll work is you’ll ask a question(s) and i’ll post it (minus personal details) and my response on the blog. The ‘surgery’ will be open 24/7, however responses will (unless totally urgent) be posted Wednesday-Friday.

I should say that first and foremost that all question will be kept totally anonymous and privacy totally respected. Secondly, and this is my little disclaimer, the advice I give is just that … advice. It’s not the gospel or testimony.

Now that i’ve got that out the way please feel free to ask me any quesitons you may have via
email: askeroticnoire@gmail.com
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