Spank & Wax workshop FAQ

On Friday 8th July Eroticnoire presents Spank & Wax. It’s London’s first and only BDSM workshop dedicated to black people and POC.

Tickets are available on Eventbrite

Here is an FAQ for those interested in the event.

I’m single can I attend alone?

Absolutely. The event is for singles and couples. They’ll be other singles attending so you can be paired up with them if you wish.

What should I wear?

We recommend comfortable clothing. You can dress as formal or sensual as you wish.

Is this a play/adult party?

No. This is workshop whereby attendees learn how to practice spanking. Any sexual acts are prohibited.

Will I be expected to spank or be spanked?

This is totally up to you. Consent is paramount for us so it’s your choice.

Do I have to pair up if attending alone?

No. You can form small groups and practice together if everyone has consented. Or you can simply watch.

Will paddles be provided?

Yes. A limited number of paddles will be provided. You’re more than welcome to bring your own implements. You can also purchase them from RedRoomPleasures.com

Is the event exclusively for blk and POCs?

Yes. This event is specifically for those of African and Caribbean heritage to explore this area of BDSM and kink.

I’m in a mixed couple relationship, can my partner attend?

Yes, as long as they are attending with a black person or POC.

Will there be 1-2-1 coaching

Due to the nature of the event there will be some one-to-one guidance but not exclusive or prolonged coaching.

Is this event for couples only?

No, not at all. Singles are actively welcomed.

Is the event confidential?

We ask all attendees to respect each other’s privacy and that discretion is upheld.

Can I volunteer to be part of the demonstration?

Absolutely. Speak with our hosts. You can also volunteer to be spanked by another attendee as long as they consent.

Can I take photos or video?

You can only take images of yourself or the person(s) you’ve attended with. We ask you respect the privacy of other guests. Our hosts will also be monitoring the session.

Will I be allowed to attend in lingerie or kink wear?

Yes. Kink and lingerie are welcomed. However, we ask you consider other guests.

Can I watch or do I have to take part?

You’re welcome to attend and watch. However, it is a practical workshop so bare this in mind.

If you’ve got any other questions leave a comment below. Don’t forget to join the mailing list:

Personal invitation to Eroticnoire’s Shibari workshop

You’ve been invited to learn and explore Shibari (erotic rope bondage) on Wednesday 27 April.Your host and tutor for the night will be Mousey is sending you a personal invite so come along.

This is London’s first shibari workshop dedicated for people of African/Caribbean heritage.

This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, a date or just a sole exploration.This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Spaces are limited so book early to avoid disappointment: Tickets available on eventbrite

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Eroticnoire Shirabi Taster Session – FAQ

Eroticnoire presents the Shibari Taster Session. Come and learn about rope play, restraints, techniques, styles and morevisit Eventbrite for more details

Here’s a FAQ for attendees

Q: I’m single can I attend alone?

A: Yes, this event is for singles as well as couples and groups You can practice on yourself or be paired with another attendee

Q: Will I need to be nude/undressed?

A: No. Attendees will be clothed. We do advise fitted comfortable clothing eg leggings, fitted tops etc

Q: Will rope be provided?

A: Yes, there will be rope available. You can also purchase rope at the venue

Q: Will there be men and women?

A: Yes. We welcome everyone to attend and learn

Q: Do you welcome groups?

A: Yes, groups are welcome. Although we do not offer group tickets

Q: Can I wear lingerie or be nude?

A: Lingerie is ok and we welcome all individuals to be free and comfortable. However, we ask that you consider other guests.

Q: Will there be one-to-one coaching?

A: Due to the nature of the event coach will provide some one-to-one guidance but not a prolonged or exclusive one-to-one coaching

Q: Can I take photos or video?

A: Yes, you’re welcome to take photos and videos of yourself, partner or friends. We do ask you respect the privacy of other guests

Q: Is this event exclusively for people of African and Caribbean heritage

A: Yes. This event is strictly for those of African and Caribbean heritage to explore this area of BDSM and kink and breakdown the under representation of this group of people.

Q: Do I have to get involved or can i just watch and learn?

A: You’re welcome to attend and watch. however, it is a practical workshop. You can practice on yourself.

Q: is it only women who can be tied up?

A: No. men can be tied up too. Shibari is for all genders to explore and enjoy.

Eroticnoire Shirabi Taster Session – April 27 2022

The Eroticnoire Shibari Taster Session gives you a chance to explore, indulge and get hands on guidance and experience with Shibari (also known as rope play or rope art).

Shibari expert and advocate Mousey aka @mouseinrope will be your host and teacher.

Structure of the evening:

  • Demonstration and teaching
  • Guided practice session
  • Q&A
  • Free time to practice and network

This will be a friendly, inclusive session. Suitable for singles, couples and groups. It’s the ideal place to learn, explore, meet likeminded people, a date or just a sole exploration.

This event is specifically for people of African and Caribbean heritage and other POCs

Places are limited

Here’s a link to a FAQ