Spank & Wax workshop FAQ

On Friday 8th July Eroticnoire presents Spank & Wax. It’s London’s first and only BDSM workshop dedicated to black people and POC.

Tickets are available on Eventbrite

Here is an FAQ for those interested in the event.

I’m single can I attend alone?

Absolutely. The event is for singles and couples. They’ll be other singles attending so you can be paired up with them if you wish.

What should I wear?

We recommend comfortable clothing. You can dress as formal or sensual as you wish.

Is this a play/adult party?

No. This is workshop whereby attendees learn how to practice spanking. Any sexual acts are prohibited.

Will I be expected to spank or be spanked?

This is totally up to you. Consent is paramount for us so it’s your choice.

Do I have to pair up if attending alone?

No. You can form small groups and practice together if everyone has consented. Or you can simply watch.

Will paddles be provided?

Yes. A limited number of paddles will be provided. You’re more than welcome to bring your own implements. You can also purchase them from

Is the event exclusively for blk and POCs?

Yes. This event is specifically for those of African and Caribbean heritage to explore this area of BDSM and kink.

I’m in a mixed couple relationship, can my partner attend?

Yes, as long as they are attending with a black person or POC.

Will there be 1-2-1 coaching

Due to the nature of the event there will be some one-to-one guidance but not exclusive or prolonged coaching.

Is this event for couples only?

No, not at all. Singles are actively welcomed.

Is the event confidential?

We ask all attendees to respect each other’s privacy and that discretion is upheld.

Can I volunteer to be part of the demonstration?

Absolutely. Speak with our hosts. You can also volunteer to be spanked by another attendee as long as they consent.

Can I take photos or video?

You can only take images of yourself or the person(s) you’ve attended with. We ask you respect the privacy of other guests. Our hosts will also be monitoring the session.

Will I be allowed to attend in lingerie or kink wear?

Yes. Kink and lingerie are welcomed. However, we ask you consider other guests.

Can I watch or do I have to take part?

You’re welcome to attend and watch. However, it is a practical workshop so bare this in mind.

If you’ve got any other questions leave a comment below. Don’t forget to join the mailing list:

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