squirting 101
Squirting 101.
So I’ve been asked numerous times what is the technique to making a woman squirt. I’ve decided to take it to school and share my knowledge…
First things first. The woman must empty her bladder. This is because when a woman is about to squirt it feels like she is gonna pee herself (squirting uses the same muscles as peeing) most times a woman will have this sensation and stop/make the partner stop. She needs to ‘push’ pass this and let her body go.
The man/woman needs to make a hook shape with their middle two fingers and slide them inside. The gspot is located in the front wall of the woman about 2-3 inches in. Its behind her pelvic bone/below her belly button. (see below diagram)
The trick is to gently but firmly pressing against her gspot. Her gspot is a bumpy/rough/ridged area inside her. Its about an inch wide (but can vary from woman to woman) he/she must stroke her spot using small circular motions NO FINGER FUCKING!! and no in-out motion. He’s/her fingers stay inside her always touching/stroking her spot. Pace should be steady and smooth – even if her movement increases in pace/tempo. I find the most pleasurable way to add to making a woman squirt is to suck on her clit while stroking her gspot. Now … The art of clit sucking is a whole different lesson but we’ll assume he/she knows how to suck skillfully. For those that don’t do oral they can use their thumb to stimulate the clit at the same time (see diagram below)
Sucking of her clit should mirror the smooth pace of finger motion. Soft, deep, long sucking motions on the clit along with good finger strokes. As she reaches orgasm its important to keep both finger and sucking steady. You may increase sucking pace BUT it must be soft and rhythmic – you’re not trying to extract her clit from her body. As she’s about to cum the man/woman may want to keep their mouth over her clit. As she orgasms its also important to keep fingers still pressed against her gspot and not to pull them out suddenly – it can be uncomfortable, disrupt the orgasm and your liable to receive a slap to the top of your head.
Now I feel I should add a disclaimer here. Squirting may not happen immediately, it may not even be a full on gush of female juice. However, I can say, if done right and over time the orgasm WILL be different and intense. Remember it can take time to get pass the peeing sensation. Oh, and you may want to put a towel under her just in case. She will get extremely wet.
Happy squirting…
Please drop me a line let me know how you get along. BB pin:25CB3DF9
Dr Erotic Noire
also check out pt2 which is all about using the right toys to help you squirt: squirting 101 pt 2
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How intriguing…
It is indeed. However, I believe, for some the proof is in the tasting of the pudding (or in the case the squirting of the juices)
This was some very good information there. Thanks for this good article.
Thanks Ray, just trying to make the world a better place one squirt at a time …
I’ll share with you my experiences of squirting… The first time it happened I had no idea what was going on. His hands were down there fiddling around when he pressed something and KABOOM! The best orgasm ever and a huge puddle underneath me. We had no idea what happened or how to make it happen again, much to my dismay. I did loads of research, bought G spot vibes but nothing worked. Fast forward three years (and a new guy) I was determined to make it happen again. This time I knew what to do and gave him precise instructions (although he didn’t want me squirting in his face lol) when he finally made me squirt it was HEAVEN. fireworks, ticker tape parade, with a marching band! Afterwards we both looked at each other and said WOW. his hand was soaked and so was the bed. Ever since that nite he loves making me squirt and I love doing it! I HIGHLY RECOMMEND ALL GUYS LEARN TO DO THIS ASAP!
lol … “fireworks, ticker tape parade, with a marching band!” love it. so … the question is does my ‘lesson’ sound like it’ll have the desire out-cum?
HELL YES! this needs to be sent out as a broadcast!
All I have to say is this… practice makes perfect!!!!!!
Practice does indeed make perfect … So let the ‘practice’ begin
Well written, and factual. Take it from someone who’s been married almost 53 years, one ejaculation is only a good beginning. A good lover can make a woman multiple orgasm 15 times in 90 minutes to 2 hours. She will literally approach a fainting stage and be unable to stand. Let’s just say I read it in a book.
Thanks again
15 times huh? My … Er, friend managed 9 times in one session. But I’m a virgin so wouldn’t know about such things. My knowledge is all best on books; I’m an erotic nerd
Being a virgin and writing erotica must be very hard on you. (No pun intended, although it would make a good one.) Sincere congratulations on your virginity, but if you play with fire, you’ll eventually get burned.
Nice work.am learning fast on hw 2 make my lady com.thanks
Thanks Joshua,
Glad I can pass on the knowledge
Very informative
For some reason, I always imagine it being quite painful, so I’m afraid to let this happen. I’ve had partners attempt this but I’m just too afraid that it will hurt so I try not to allow that. I am familiar with the need to urinate sensation, though.
Hi SunRa-dess, its not painful at all – intense yes, but not painful. i’m happy to discuss further with you if you want more advice and tips. Mr E